Healing and restoration of Matt and cassandras families from drugs and sin

by Misty Sallows
(Bedford, IN, United States)

Matthews Family

Pray that Matthew is healed of his addictions to drugs and to alcohol. Pray that a protective hedge is placed around Matthew protecting him emotionally, physically, and spiritually from those who would provide him with drugs and alcohol, or support his use of drugs or alcohol including the married woman he is in a codependent relationship with. Alienate him from those people and from her, divide him from those people and from her. Fill Matthew with the holy spirit and remove from all of the lies, denials, justifications, and bindings keeping him in that relationship with another mans wife while his own family receives no support or contact from him. Pray for him to be healed and for him to heed Gods call for him to return to his family to honor his parents, and their wisdom, to support his daughter, to support his family, and to fulfill his promises to his family and to God to be an honorable and god fearing man and to support his family. Pray also that Cassandra the married woman is healed and that she returns to her husband Thomas.

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Jan 28, 2018
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PTSD Bologna NEW
by: Kathleen

Listen Misty it doesn't matter the date of the post you have made I talk to my sister on a daily basis and you are wrong about what you are saying about beaten women your stuff you are saying are statistics of a majority not of a single one it all depends on the strength of the person their selves my sister is one the strongest women that I know alongside myself you have no idea of what we grew up and you never will because like I said before your source of information is wrong. You DO NOT know what she is doing to get away from him at all and Matt believes her because she's not a lying coniving women like you are making her out to be. So please keep her name out of your mouth unless you can actually woman up and go talk to her to her face. Other than that quit being a coward and hiding behind the internet. I'm in a relationship with the man of my life and my soul mate and if someone "took" him like you say that she did with Matt which is false she didn't take him away it's a two way street there but anyways if someone came and took my love I wouldn't be hiding behind the internet I'd be going to them to their faces. But education is not everything doenst make you the smartest person in the world some of the people with the best education in the world are still wrong about stuff.

Jan 27, 2018
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some fact's for you NEW
by: Casandra's Mother

A report has found that Depression is by far the most common system of Domestic Violence..This report has also found that women taking refuge in shelters as a result of Domestic Violence are at a higher rate for PTSD than other victimized women.Here is another fact.The words we listen to,as well as those that come out of our mouths,indicate our inner character.I have visited Casandra and her husband Terry.So i do have first hand knowledge of her treatment while i was there.I could not even make it a week,because of that treatment of her and her child.He also told me on the phone once that he was digging her grave.His own mother has even posted in a comment the she left her abusive husband and so should Casandra.I thought you should know some better fact's before you say my daughter is not a victim of abuse. I am not going to comment on what should stay between you and Matt.Not on a public forum.But you as an educated person should know that a post can be read by anyone.Also by your daughter if not now then at a later date.The Lord say's gossip is a sin.You have only repeated account's of thing going on between Casandra and Matt.They cannot be anything but repeated accounts because you do not live in their home.You then repeat them in a public forum.I believe this is known a gossip.I will pray for all of you to move forward in the most peaceful way.And one that the Lord see's fitting for all.

Jan 27, 2018
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Once again: I did not do any of those things NEW
by: Misty Sallows

I've been busy with Autumn's depression, anxiety, stomach issues, poor balance, poor memory, numbness in her arms legs and hands for months. I haven't had a Craigslist account since September and I only used that for singles searches. I do not know her husband, and I have not done any of the things you are accusing me of. I will not continue this conversation.

Jan 27, 2018
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Soo.... NEW
by: Anonymous

Because your background and education makes it okay to put people down and try and make trouble for someone because you finally realized what you had and lost. Just like Thomas, oh wait that's not his real name if you want to try and bash somebody at least get your facts right girl.... What does your background and education have to do with any of this at all??? You don't know any of our background and education and if you think you do it's probably false information just like all the false information that you have been putting out there. You have no clue of half the crap you are talking about because you are most likely get your information from "Thomas" which is the wrong name anyways.

Jan 27, 2018
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Matt didn't tell you about my background and education. NEW
by: Misty Sallows

Kathleen I have a bachelors in Psychology, and I was a week away from beginning my practicum in Clinical counseling when I changed my masters program. I have done extensive research papers and exams on abuse and PTSD. Your sister has none of the indicators of any woman who has been abused. She has done none of the actions that any abused woman would have done to protect themselves. She jumped right into a relationship with another man; this is not done, She made no effort to hide herself from her abuser; this is done by abused women, She has not from what Matt tells me displayed any symptoms of the PTSD that she should have given the extent of the beatings and behavior from her husband that she has described to Matt and that he has described to me. No nightmares, no hypersensitivity to sounds, even smells, she can be around men who resemble her husband with no problems, she functions at her job without panic attacks, anxiety attacks, she is in a sexual relationship. she is in an emotional relationship without distancing herself, etc. From someone who saw extensive abuse as a child, from someone who has observed women who have been abused "Matt's grandmother on his mothers side", as well as women in the mental health office I worked at for a year while I worked on my Masters, an extensive case studies and research into this population: She is lying, and it's a bit of a slap in the face that Matt believed her. The incidence rate for PTSD in abused women is near 100 percent. For those women with histories like the one Cassandra is claiming it is at 100%. As for attempting to get her fired from her job. There are people in town who know her better than I do; who are doing that not me. And no Autumn "Matt's kid" has been told none of these things. I didn't even say those things to Matt. And if I am working so hard alongside her husband to discredit Casandra; then why don't I know his name? I know she's your sister, but you don't know her as well as you think you do. And it turns out I didn't know Matt as well as I thought I did. And she and I have talked; as she answered his phone on January the 1st, and we talked extensively about the craigslist posts, and she asked me what Matt was talking to me about. Maybe you should talk to your sister. If you had checked the date on this thing, and bothered to ask me; you would see that this is an old prayer. My prayers have changed a lot over the months.

Jan 27, 2018
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And another thing NEW
by: Anonymous

I have not tried to get anyone fired from anything and I have not stepped foot into the family dollar in 8 months or so now; just so I could avoid being accused of harassment and what not. And no I never ignored Matt, not once. He was the one who would not come home, not answer texts, not answer his phone when he was called, leave when we were trying to do things as a family, "on Easter Sunday 2017 he spent thirty minutes with us at Spring Mill and then he had to leave" etc. He took Autumn to the ER in May and spent all of an hour with her; when she was scared and she needed him. He was never ignored, he was never denied sex, I did not just keep him around for his paycheck, or any of the other rumors that you and your sister have been spreading. Matt hasn't supported us, or his daughter since February 2017. I'm praying for them both.

Jan 27, 2018
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I haven't been doing any of those things NEW
by: Misty Sallows

Kathleen is it? I haven'e done any of those things. And if I have her husbands name wrong then so be it. I have not poisoned the relationship between Autumn and Matt. I have been so busy with Autumns health issues I don't have time to harass anyone. Matt and Casandra have told me about the stuff on Craigslist. I don't even have a craigslist account, and haven't had one since September when Autumn and I started making regular trips to doctors offices for on going stomach issues and numbness in her extremities. If anyone has poisoned anyones relationship it has been you and your sister. And no one else. The last time Matt took Autumn anywhere he was under the influence of something so she doesn't get into a vehicle with him anymore. The last time she saw him in November he didn't look like her dad anymore. If she texts Matt your sister answers the phone, or deletes the texts, or sends obviously drunk messages back to whomever has tried to contact Matt including his dad Paul. I am not harassing Casandra or Matt. I don't have the time, and they are not worth the effort; my daughter is. And neither are you. I will however continue to pray for all of you since all of you need it.

Jan 27, 2018
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Praying for you NEW
by: Anonymous

Misty I will pray for you.Pray that you will stop doing all harassment that you are doing along the side of Thomas.I will pray that you will stop poisoning your child with negatives thought's of their father.It does not matter what you think of him.He is still their father.This post show's that you are putting negatives thing's in their mind about their father.I think it really a small person that will use a well meaning site.To pray for a woman to be reunited with an abusive husband.He has hit,belittled,isolated her from friend's and family.All trade mark's of an abuser.He has also done all these thing's to her child.I will pray that God will heal your hurt and to help you move forward without malice to other's.

Jan 27, 2018
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Spelled wrong NEW
by: Anonymous

Another thing along with having Thomas wrong if you are going to bash someone you should at least learn to spell their name right

Jan 27, 2018
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Dear grow a pair NEW
by: Casandras sister

You don't even have someone's name right first off. Another thing why don't you grow up and go and talk to Casandra to her face about your problem with her. Do you not see that Matt does not want you anymore. It's not like you noticed he was for a month. It's not until he left that you finally realized it. This so called Thomas which is not his name is not a good man and does not deserve my sister. You call yourself a Christian but you are not when you post stuff like this and try to meddle into people's life. Christians don't try and get people fired from there jobs. They don't post things on Craig's list that are not true. And they definitely don't try to put people down that they don't like. And if you have a problem with this comment please feel from to get ahold of me Casandras sister if you even know who I am. Not going to leave my name for you. Or you can grow a pair and actually go and talk to her yourself.

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